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21 Gender Neutral Valentine’s Gifts for Bae to Buy + DIY

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I’m 1 work week away from donning head to toe blush and wearing my one matching set. It’s the final countdown to the loveliest, doviest, most tear jerker holiday!

And you, my friends, are here for the good stuff. 21 gender neutral gifts for that special someone right? A lot of these DIY ideas I’ve actually gifted Michael and they’ve gotten the boyfriend/fiance stamp of approval. So let’s get shopping or crafting!

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Cards
The card sets the stage for any gift. Make it bold with an illustrated, letterpress card from Sparkvites, simple and modern with a ‘love’ word search or pass on a bear hug with this Valentine’s Bear.

If you’re aiming for tears, make it personal with a DIY ‘I love You Because‘ jar.

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Treats
Start date night dinner with a heart shaped pizza or this Penne A La Vodka. (Excuse the pasta’s name, but hey, it can’t hurt right?)

Bring it all to the sweetest of ends with funnel cake or feeding each other dark, decadent truffles.

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Small Surprises
A living plant (plus pun) beats flowers at the office every day.

Forget 99 red balloons. Spell it out with L-O-V-E.

Do you remember burning cd’s and carefully crafting playlists? Try a modern take with a personalized USB. Ya, they can get music from anywhere now, but the USB will be cute and show you thought about them.

End the night with a scented massage bar.

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Pretty Things
Say it loud, say it proud with DIY message shirts. Make a matching pair for Korean idol levels of cute.

Put together a photo book of your 1st year of dating, the year in review, or places you’ve traveled. Next level tip: Throw in one ‘goal’ picture at the end as a surprise gift. (If you made a travel book, add a picture of a place you want to go together.)

Tell your favorite coffee buddy ‘I heart you like XO‘ with these (mugs).

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Date Ideas
Stay away from the bars and host a chocolate & wine tasting or beer tasting for two. The cheaper and cozier way to sample spirits.

The Dating Divas have a date night and printables for every occasion. The Valentine’s Day ones are extra sweet.

My Drifting Desk had 90+ free date night ideas already to print for a date night jar.

Or if date night is always a toss up, let this DIY fortune teller decide.

Pretty Fluffy no sew dog toy valetentines puppy

And last but not least, a puppy!!! I’m 100% kidding here (also puppy crushing very hard on this guy), but if you do have a puppy for your Valentine’s why not try your hand at this no-sew toy for them?

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2 Comments

  1. Marissa says

    February 9, 2017

    Thank you for featuring my post as part of these perfect Valentine’s Day ideas! I love the post!

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      February 10, 2017

      Thank you for the date ideas! I wish I found your blog while I was still in college

      Reply

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In our current house, I’m looking back at this project since next on my list will be Michael’s office! Michael inspired me with his 5 year anniversary gift to me (a nice furniture piece- he definitely knows me ☺️) so my gift to him will be wood shelves for his new office, plus a little space makeover. 

Excited to take on a small project while the kitchen reno is underway. It’ll feel nice to feel project progress somewhere and get hands on for the first time since Cade arrived ☺️
I set up a baby studio for Cade’s “month by month” I set up a baby studio for Cade’s “month by month” shots and there’s no way I’m taking it down for the rest of the year 😅 

It’s worth the space it takes up though. Capturing his growth and personality feels like the greatest privilege. I can’t believe there were only 3 weeks between his newborn and 1 month photos 🥲
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